| Location | Gorleston, Gt. Yarmouth , Norfolk |
| Age | 31 years |
| Date of Birth | 3/1976 |
| Date of Death | 2007 |
| Visitors | 2,695 since 04/01/2008 |
| Creator |
Marc Wheatley
4th January 2007
Self employed car valeter
Gorleston, Norfolk
Me and Marc have a son Brett 7years old and Marc has 2 step daughters Stacey and Naomi from my previous relationship.
He has a sister Kerry and his mum Anita and dad Kevin live in Scotland.
Marc died very suddenly and unexpectedly. It was our sons first day back at school after the christmas break we had taken him there and Marc later worked on his van. I went with my daughter to take my grandson to nursery we only left Marc 25 mins and came back and found him gone. I then had to pick our son up and explain why his beloved daddy wasn`t with me. How do you explain that, how do you understand that, just so suddenly and alone. Crying now.
Marc was the best thing to happen to me other than my children. He was kind , caring , loving, funny, I could go on forever but this is all very upsetting as it was a year ago today that he was taken from us so cruelly.
He was a family man and everything he did he did for us. He was a truely adorable man everybody loved him. We enjoyed camping we have a caravan and Marc would play endlessly with Brett. I don,t have many photos as we didn,t like having pics taken but we have lovely ones of a water fight we had at camp. We were always dreaming of getting a campervan. He was a DJ for our local hospital radio where he had a weekly slot but one of his dreams was to be on radio 1 he was deffinately good enough just undiscovered. His favourite was Chris Moyles and he would listen and laugh endlessly. He also liked Chubby Brown of whom I wasn,t a fan but Marc met him and was in awe. We shared a passion for formula 1, Marc greatley admired Ayrton Senna and Michael Schumacher we did visit Siverston once and we had planned to take Brett last year and also go to Legoland.
I use to love watching Marc and Brett watch their fav programmes Top Gear and Pimp my Ride. Anything to do with cars and it was endless talking laughing and playing. They were car mad together. Marc got Brett into Kit from Knight Rider at an early age so he`s now got a Kit remote car *specially from his daddy.* They idolized each other and were inseperable and that breaks my heart. I can,t see now as the tears are drippin on the keys. We didn,t have many friends as we were content just the three of us. I am older than Marc and my daughter Stacey has 2 children Leo 2 years and Phoebe who was nearly 3 weeks old and he adored them all. Marc had worked for 13 years as a car valeter and was a perfectionist. He always gave 110%. He was in the process of acheiving his other dream to be a self employed car valeter. He was working nights delivering newspapers and doing courses to learn the paperwork side of the business during the day. He had the last few pieces to put together and the business was go go go hence working on his van the day he was taken from us. He would have been a succuss as he always gave his all and I never told him how proud I was of him. I never told him enough how much I loved him either sorry tears again. Me and Marc had a few ups and downs mainly money (unimportant now) and I suffered depression (couldn.t say that at once) brought on by an incident at work but Marc put up with all that. He was and still is the love of my life and without him mine and my sons lives are empty. Our hearts are broken. I have lost my soulmate, my hubby and my son has loss a perfect dad. A special man has been taken and now today we have to lay flowers and release a balloon instead of kisses and cuddles. We Love and miss you so so much darling you have our hearts forever until we meet again.
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THE ROSE BEYOND THE WALL
A rose once grew
Where all could see
Sheltered beside a garden wall
And as the days passed swiftly by
It spread its branches staight and tall
One day,a beam of light
Shone through a crevice
That opened wide
The rose bent gently
Towards its warmth
Then passed beyond
To the other side
Now,you who deeply feel its loss
Be comforted the rose blooms there
Its beauty even greater now
Nurured by Gods own loving care
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I just wanted to say a massive thank you for your continued support for me,my family but most of all mary you will never know how much you have helped us
through our darkest days.what makes it so special is that you to are grieving for the loss of your loved one you truly are an angel here on earth.God bless you xxxxx
The best daddy in the world
Happy Fathers Day
Hiya babe. Everyday is hard waking up and your not there but waking up today when your not with us and Brett can`t jump on you to wake you and give you a present it breaks my heart its so cruel. You are and always will be the best daddy in the world. You and Brett had something so special, so much love, such a bond. Brett has made you a beautiful Fathers Day card at school something they have only just started doing but we want to buy you presents and show you how much we love but we can`t. Can`t wait for today to be over as it is so painful. Saying that everyday is painful without you by our sides. We love you and miss you so much babe. A very special and beautiful person is missing from our lives and nothing will ever be the same. We need you by our sides so much. I can`t keep writting this. We love, miss and need you so much babe. You have all our love forever and ever. Our hearts are broken. X X X
Morning Marc, sorry for the lack of candles, simons anniversary is 2 wks away and im really struggling im afraid !!
Keep watch over trudy and brett, love to you all you are in my thoughts and prayers every day xxx
ANGEL OF GUIDANCE
You may not know which path to take
or be sure what to do
and life seems full of obstacles
that you can't see your way through
but there are angels who can help
for thats their special task
and one will gladly help you too
you only have to ask
for there's angel of guidance
beside you every day
if you trust her,she will take your hand
and gently show the way
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TO OUR ANGEL HERE ON EARTH THANK YOU FOR ALWAYS BEING THERE WITH YOUR SUPPORT+COMFORT.WE WANT TO SAY A SPECIAL THANK YOU FOR VISITING MARY'S PAGE YOU BRING A DAILY SMILE TO OUR FACE+A COMFORT THAT SOMEONE ELSE CARES FOR OUR ANGEL XXXXXXXXX
Marc I've tried to add this song to your page, Trudy gave me the password but personally I think she's confuddled and gave me the wrong 1! I've even sent her the song to put on herself but... lol... you know how crap she is at computers!
I promise next time I go to your house I'll put it on for you. Trudy heard the song and agreed it was perfect for your site. We had another great weekend at the van this weekend. Trudy always says how much she wished you'd have met us while you were still here. You would've had such a laugh with our nutty lot and would've fitted in perfectly.
As always... let Trudy & Brett know you're with them. They still miss you terribly.
xx
Just A Little Hug xxx
A hug can say 'I'll miss you'
or 'I'll be thinking of you'
it can say 'you're someone special'
or best of all 'I love you'
it can soothe a hurt,or calm a fear
or cheer us when we're blue
it almost seems a miracle
all the things a hug can do!
When the sun is refusing to shine on your day
and you're finding it hard just to cope
When you're seeing more rain clouds
than stars in the sky
and you feel like giving up hope
that's the time when someone
comes along with a smile and a warm hug
that say's 'it's ok tomorrow is coming so don't give
up now brighter moments are soon on their way'
This is just a warm little hug
and a smile to cheer you
to let you know now
that there's somebody near you who cares.
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THANK YOU FOR ALL YOU'RE SUPPORT
LOVE SUSAN CARLY AND MAXINE XXXXXXXXXXXXXX
ANGEL OF COMFORT
When each day brings only sadness
and your heart is filled with pain
you will find it so hard to believe
that you'll ever smile again
but when your crying deep inside
an angel always hears and will be there
to comfort you and wipe away your tears
there are wings of love around you
and you can depend upon your angel
who will give you hope
and the strength to carry on
Hi Marc. Just wanted to say a quick hello and to say that as you're not here, we try to look out for your wife and son as much as we can.
We give her a boot up the bum when she needs it whilst being there for her when she's really down and needs someone to scream at.
She is a dear friend and we all (the caravan crew) hate to see her upset. We're still gutted we never met you while you were still here, we were only hedges apart!
Trudy will be laughing when she reads this and no doubt will ring me tonight. She is trying her hardest to be strong, especially for Brett.
I have found a song that I think is perfect to go on your page. Everytime I hear it I can imagine Trudy singing it for you (although I wouldn't ask her to as she's apparently got a terrible voice!) ;o)
Waiting to hear from her now so I can put it on for you as yo know how bad she is with computers!
Anyway, I've rambled far too much... I should take a breath. Let Trudy & Brett know you're with them
xx
I have not turned my back on you
so theres no need to cry
im watching you from heaven
just beyond the morning sky
ive seen you almost fall apart
when you could barely stand
I ask the lord to comfort you
and watch him take your hand
he told me you are in more pain
than i could ever be
he wiped his eyes and swallowed hard
then gave your hand to me
although you may not feel my touch
or see me by your side
Ive whispered that i love you
while i wiped each tear you cried
so please try not to ache for me
well meet again one day
beyond the dark and stormy sky
a rainbow lights the way
goodnight marc,keep watching over trudy and brett,they need u right now,help them stay strong.sleep tight hun xxx
hi trudy,hope ur ok hun.i know how hard ur finding things hun and if u ever need anything just email me.it might not help but there are people out there who care and want to listen,im not one of those who think ur paranoid.
stay strong trudy.love 2 u and brett x xx

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